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Videos

Getting Started

Step by Step

Step By Step

01.

Watch the "Getting Started" Video, above.

02.

Visit the AP Help Center, at the link below, for more detailed answers to your questions.

Supporting Information

Supporting Info

Single Men

Situation
How to Address
He is a Doctober
Both are Doctors
Single Male without +1
Mr. John Smith
Dr. John Smith
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Single Male with +1
Mr. John Smith and Guest
Dr. John Smith and Guest
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Single Male Dating Seriously
Mr. John Smith and Jane Doe
Dr. John Smith and Jane Doe
Dr. John Smith and Dr. Jane Doe
Single Father, One Child
Mr. John Smith and Toby
Dr. John Smith and Toby
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Single Father 2+ Children
Mr. John Smith and Family
Dr. John Smith and Family
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Single Women

Situation
Addressing
She is a Doctor
Both are Doctors
Single Female without +1
Ms. Mary Williams
Dr. Mary Williams
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Single Female with +1
Ms. Mary Williams and Guest
Dr. Mary Williams and Guest
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Single Female Dating Seriously
Ms. Mary Williams and Mr. John Smith
Dr. Mary Williams and Dr. John Smith
Dr. Mary Williams and Dr. John Smith
Single Mother, one child
Ms. Mary Williams and Toby
Dr. Mary Williams and Toby
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Single Mother, 2+ children
Ms. Mary Williams and Family
Dr. Mary Williams and Family
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Married Couples

Situation
How to Address
He is a Doctor
She is a Doctor
Same Last Name, no kids
Mr. and Mrs. John Smith
Dr. and Mrs. John Smith
Dr. Mary and Mr. John Smith
Same Last Name, 1 kid
Mr. and Mrs. John Smith and Toby
Dr. and Mrs. John Smith and Toby
Dr. Mary and Mr. John Smith and Toby
Same Last Name, 2+ kids
Mr. and Mrs. John Smith and Family
Dr. and Mrs. John Smith and Family
Dr. Mary and Mr. John Smith and Family
Different Last Name, no kids
Mr. John Smith and Mrs. Mary Williams
Dr. John Smith and Mrs. Mary Williams
Dr. Mary Williams and Mr. John Smith
Different Last Names, 1 kid
Mr. John Smith, Mrs. Mary Williams and Toby
Dr. John Smith, Mrs. Mary Williams and Toby
Dr. Mary Williams, Mr. John Smith and Toby
Different Last Names, 2+ kids
Mr. John Smith, Mrs. Mary Williams and Family
Dr. John Smith, Mrs. Mary Williams and Family
Dr. Mary Williams, Mr. John Smith and Family

​NOTES:

  • When addressing one invite to two single people, who are dating seriously, you need to identify the "priority" guest. Which of the two people are you closest to? If it's the male... then follow the instructions above for "Single Males - Dating Seriously". BUT, if you're closest to the female in the relationship, follow the instructions below for "Single Female - Dating Seriously". The first person listed on the invite, should be the priority in case of a breakup.

  • When both parties are doctors, the term "Drs." should be used in place of "Mr. + Mrs."

  • If married couples have different last names, use same format as the single option, dating seriously.

  • We understand that not all guests identify as male or female. When in question, feel free to share your situation in our forum for feedback. We also encourage you to speak with your friends and family out of respect for their personal preferences.

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