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Single Men
Situation | How to Address | He is a Doctober | Both are Doctors |
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Single Male without +1 | Mr. John Smith | Dr. John Smith | --- |
Single Male with +1 | Mr. John Smith and Guest | Dr. John Smith and Guest | --- |
Single Male Dating Seriously | Mr. John Smith and Jane Doe | Dr. John Smith and Jane Doe | Dr. John Smith and Dr. Jane Doe |
Single Father, One Child | Mr. John Smith and Toby | Dr. John Smith and Toby | --- |
Single Father 2+ Children | Mr. John Smith and Family | Dr. John Smith and Family | --- |
Single Women
Situation | Addressing | She is a Doctor | Both are Doctors |
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Single Female without +1 | Ms. Mary Williams | Dr. Mary Williams | --- |
Single Female with +1 | Ms. Mary Williams and Guest | Dr. Mary Williams and Guest | --- |
Single Female Dating Seriously | Ms. Mary Williams and Mr. John Smith | Dr. Mary Williams and Dr. John Smith | Dr. Mary Williams and Dr. John Smith |
Single Mother, one child | Ms. Mary Williams and Toby | Dr. Mary Williams and Toby | --- |
Single Mother, 2+ children | Ms. Mary Williams and Family | Dr. Mary Williams and Family | --- |
Married Couples
Situation | How to Address | He is a Doctor | She is a Doctor |
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Same Last Name, no kids | Mr. and Mrs. John Smith | Dr. and Mrs. John Smith | Dr. Mary and Mr. John Smith |
Same Last Name, 1 kid | Mr. and Mrs. John Smith and Toby | Dr. and Mrs. John Smith and Toby | Dr. Mary and Mr. John Smith and Toby |
Same Last Name, 2+ kids | Mr. and Mrs. John Smith and Family | Dr. and Mrs. John Smith and Family | Dr. Mary and Mr. John Smith and Family |
Different Last Name, no kids | Mr. John Smith and Mrs. Mary Williams | Dr. John Smith and Mrs. Mary Williams | Dr. Mary Williams and Mr. John Smith |
Different Last Names, 1 kid | Mr. John Smith, Mrs. Mary Williams and Toby | Dr. John Smith, Mrs. Mary Williams and Toby | Dr. Mary Williams, Mr. John Smith and Toby |
Different Last Names, 2+ kids | Mr. John Smith, Mrs. Mary Williams and Family | Dr. John Smith, Mrs. Mary Williams and Family | Dr. Mary Williams, Mr. John Smith and Family |
​NOTES:
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When addressing one invite to two single people, who are dating seriously, you need to identify the "priority" guest. Which of the two people are you closest to? If it's the male... then follow the instructions above for "Single Males - Dating Seriously". BUT, if you're closest to the female in the relationship, follow the instructions below for "Single Female - Dating Seriously". The first person listed on the invite, should be the priority in case of a breakup.
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When both parties are doctors, the term "Drs." should be used in place of "Mr. + Mrs."
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If married couples have different last names, use same format as the single option, dating seriously.
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We understand that not all guests identify as male or female. When in question, feel free to share your situation in our forum for feedback. We also encourage you to speak with your friends and family out of respect for their personal preferences.